The Style of Femdom: The Many Faces of the Dominatrix

judging the femdoms in your life, you’re setting yourself up for disappoint. While your fantasy domina might seem something out of a BDSM stroke book, leather in head to toe, high boots that need licking, perpetual snarl and she doesn’t give a shit about you at all. Well, the realistic male submissive realizes that dominant women come in all sorts of very different, exciting packages. By looking to the stereotypical bitch goddess as your guide might seem exciting, you’re limiting yourself from discovering an entire world of creatively deviant dominant women who enjoy being both playful and stern. I’ll be outlining a few different types of dominas to educate the male submissives of the world what they’re missing out on with their fantasy expectations.

First, let’s explore the characteristics of a great domina. She has high standards and expectations from her submissives including obedience, eagerness and the confidence to know what arouses him and how to ask for it without seeming he’s topping from the bottom. A great domina has her own limits and isn’t shy of informing her submissive if she’s not comfortable with his fantasy. Begging her to reconsider will gain you nothing except a trip to the door or a clicking of the line. On the flip side, she digs to find your deepest fantasies, respects your limits, yet knows when you’re asking to be pushed a bit past them. She values safety and consensuality and uses common sense and sanity when assigning tasks to her submissives. She’s creative and adds her own twists, turns and mindfucks to the scenario you both create. She makes you feel safe because not only is she in control of you, but of herself. She does not press you to do things that make you uncomfortable, she doesn’t manipulate you into doing things against your nature either. The raw power of your femdom should compel you to work hard to please her, not being goaded with emotional blackmail (unless that’s your thing!).

I’ll post soon with types of dominas so you might explore the mindset you’re looking for when choosing a femdom Mistress to guide you into the BDSM world. Comment if you have anything you’d like me to add and include.

And while we’re discussing it, I’ll explain a bit about my style. I am most definitely not a stern, uncompromising diva Mistress. My style is often informal and playful. I ask lots of questions and dig into your psyche to discover where those desires are rooted. While a question might seem simple to you, I glean lots of information from your answers. This helps me get inside your head. I enjoy humor in sessions and don’t penalize my submissive for sharing what’s working and what’s not. I laugh a lot and am not offended when you do the same. After all, phone sex is supposed to be fun… even if you’re strapped down, ass up and ready for my strapon girl cock. That’s just how I am… a fun, playful femdom Mistress who enjoys males submissives that don’t take themselves or their fetishes too seriously.

Ms Lauren ~ 1-800-601-6975
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