Self-esteem Videos

Picture a group of adults given a task to perform. Research has shown that, if one adult performs worse than his or her peers on that task, it will result in a loss of self-esteem. Furthermore, that person is likely to perform more poorly on that same task in the future. ___ ___ Now put a group of four- to five-years old kids in the same situation. There is no affect on the child who didn t perform as well as his or her peers. So what do kids know that we adults have forgotten? They think they can learn new tricks, they can adapt. We adults think that an old dog can t be taught new tricks! Kids also think they can try harder next time and make up the difference. Isn t that a healthy attitude? So why don t we think that as adults? Have we been beat down too many times? Are we too hard on ourselves? Do we want to think that things should come easily for us? Life will throw you curve bills. On the path to bigg success, there will be times when you try and you don t succeed. It s important to learn from your mistakes, but we often learn the wrong lesson. Learn. Adapt. Then double your efforts. Don t compete with the opposite sex A more recent study at the University of Michigan showed that kids can be affected by competition. Little girls respond negatively if a little boy does better on a task. Little boys respond likewise there s a damaging impact if a little girl does better. So what can we conclude? Should we learn that women shouldn t try to compete with men? Or that men shouldn t try to compete with women? See them as a role model, not competition There will almost certainly always be somebody better. If not, maybe a good dose of humility is in order! But rather than comparing yourself to that person and getting discouraged, look at that person as a role model. You are where you are. They are where you want to be. See what you can learn from them so you get to where they are. Chances are they got started earlier. Chances are they ve put more time in. Chances are they ve gotten a few lucky breaks the kind of luck that comes to people who put themselves out there and take calculated risks. So don t see them as competition; look at them as a role model. Don t compete with others at all But there s a higher order a higher level of consciousness regarding comparisons. Here it is: Don t compete with anyone else man, woman or beast! Compete with yourself. Find that thing you at which you excel. Then strive to improve a little bit every day day after day, the new you competing against the old you . Focus on making yourself the best competitor you could ever encounter! Have you ever noticed that a great competitor brings out the best in his or her opponents? Become your own best competitor and you ll be a bigg success! ___ Get the tips and tools you need to be a BIGG success. Subscribe to the Bigg Success Weekly it s FREE! ___ Thank you so much for the gift of your time today. Please join us next time when we ll discuss the best investment you can make right now. Until then, here s to your bigg success. Subscribe to The Bigg Success Show in iTunes. Subscribe to the Bigg Success feed. Direct link to The Bigg Success Show audio file: http://media.libsyn.com/media/biggsuccess/00524-112009.mp3 Related posts Entrepreneuring Life on Your Own Terms (Image in today s post by personalfx)

There are many people that question whether or not God is real. Return to Your First Love is an inspirational story about one woman s life that will give an atheist second thought.

A Christian talks about the impact becoming a Christian had on her sense of worth and purpose.

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Help in overcoming shyness from someone whom has done that after research, and helped others. Great tips and explanations on overcoming shyness from www.selfconfidencenow.com

Advice on how to improve self-esteem from someone whom has experienced lack of confidence but overcome it with research. Great tips on how to improve self esteem and have fun from www.selfconfidencenow.com

Learn about the importance of being positive when dealing with your self-esteem.

This Hey Arnold fanvid took such a long time to make so I hope everyone who watches it enjoys it. :) Windows Movie Maker froze up more while making this video than while making any of my other videos. If it does that when I decide to make a new video than I may just have to switch over to a different editing/movie making program. I don't know alot about those types of programs so we'll see, lol. Despite the difficulties, I think this one turned out the way I wanted. :) I focused this one on the four main Hey Arnold girls in the series: Helga, Rhonda, Phoebe and Lila...though some of the other kids are scattered throughout as well. The themes are the friendships and rivalries between these four plus how each of the girls is willing to generally stand up for what she believes in in her own way. I thought this song was perfect for illustrating this very concept. It's a pretty good song too. :) Song: Mirror Artist: BarlowGirl Disclaimer: Just like on my last fanvid, I don't own Hey Arnold, anything associated with it nor do I own the song Mirror. Everything belongs to their respective owners. Once more, I'm not making any money off of the video. It was made for entertainment purposes only and no copyright infringement intended.

See how brave Arctic women are supporting each other at Qimaavik (Inuktitut for "A Place to Run To"), a safe haven for abused women and children.