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This episode of Intelligent Love is about one of my favorite ways to flirt text flirting. I will cover some basics both for those in the dating scene and those in long-term relationships. First, some suggestions for GIVING GOOD TEXT. One, since the recipient can't hear your voice tone or see your face, things can be easily misconstrued; especially in the beginning, SO keep your messages light. If you do WANT convey emotion, exaggerate the emotion by using ALL CAPS, emoticons and exclamation points. Two, text only when you are in a happy mood. Three, super sexy or dirty texting should be reserved until after you have hooked up. Then you can play all you want. Four, keep it light and fun, no heavy stuff via text amuse her and yourself. Five, play with the element of timing. If she texts wait at least 5 minutes but never more than half a day to respond. Make sure you are sending a good first impression because those are critical. Choose wisely your texts may turn into a make it or break it instant messages. Once you know someone s particular humor or style of texting, then you will be able to play. Here are some TEXTING DON Ts: First, do not use a text message as the avenue to ask a woman out for the first time. Pick up the phone, if you can t do it in-person. Two, never ever use texting to convey deep feelings for the first time they are being exchanged. An acquaintance said her boyfriend told her via text for the first time mind you that he loved her. She was thrilled at first, but after the initial joy subsided, she felt a little jilted. Three, never by any circumstances text when you are drunk or when it is past 11 pm unless you are in a committed relationship you will regret the text the next day and make her think you are a dweeb looking for a bootie call. Four, don t break up with someone via a text. It s worse than a post-it and some day I guarantee it WILL come back to haunt you. Five, don t over text she should get excited when she sees a text from you, not get a sinking feeling. Six, make sure you have a healthy balance of texting, calling, emailing and in-person time. It is bad to have texting as your primary mode of communication.

I m going to explore ways to keep the spark alive when you can t sleep next to your love every night. Do you or your significant other travel for work? Or maybe you just live across town from one another and you want to feel more connected. We all know the saying Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Well, when two individuals are committed to making their relationship thrive, time apart can be a creative challenge that can bring out your wild and sexy side. Having some space in your togetherness is a GOOD thing. Modern day technology is a blessing. It allows us to IM or chat throughout the day. We can video-conference with programs such as iChat or Skype. We can take mini-videos with our cell phones or flip video recorders. Or we can take still photos and text them to our love ALL in the blink of an eye. With boundless technology at our fingertips, it is only our minds that limit us. Staying connected while traveling doesn t have to be accomplished through gadgets. When my love traveled, I encouraged him to pack his bags the day before because that gave me time to sneak notes into the pockets of his clothes. During the day he would run across a sweet nothing from me like a simple I love you! or a little racier Start guessing NOW what I am going to be OR NOT be wearing under my jacket when I pick you up from the airport. Mentally, scents can keep the two of you closer. Smell is a powerful component for bringing memories quickly into focus. I recommend having a piece of clothing a t-shirt or a sweatshirt that has been worn for a day or two by your partner loaded with their pheromones or simply a scarf with your love s perfume or cologne on it along with you when you travel. You will be bringing a part of them along with you. Also a fragrant candle or incense that brings back thoughts of your love. Pack photos that you can put on your remote desk or place on your bedside table. When you aren t there to physically touch your love make sure you plan ways to incorporate all 4 of your other senses. We ve covered smell and sight but how about taste. Is there a particular sleepy time tea, hot cinnamon coco or a special nightcap that you usually have when you are home together? If there is, bring it along on your trip and have it before you make your good night call. Cosmopolitan magazine said that 85 percent of you guys would like your girl to give it to you good over the phone. So no matter how it begins, once the dirty talk is underway you'd better hope you have unlimited minutes. You may find some women aren t really confident in the area of dirty talk, they simply some have no idea what you want to hear. If that is the case, I have found a terrific resource you can pass along called www.dirtytalktips.com. It is a weekly newsletter of tips for spicing up your repertoire in bed or over the phone. So by incorporating a few new phrases, the right smells and some tantalizing photos or videos you are well on your way to making your time apart from one another a way to bring the two of you closer, heighten your levels of good body chemistry and make you are all revved up by the time your lips can lock again.

Is your love stressed out, too uptight for sex because she had a rough day at the office? You know the routine, she s ready to jump into her sweats, curl up on the couch, and eat some comfort food to unwind from the week ..OH NO!... this looks like the recipe for YOU AIN T GETTING LUCKY TONIGHT. So, if you want to help her unwind, de-stress but not CRASH get ready to watch and learn some pointers. Chances are if you take these few steps, the two of you will be much happier campers. Telling you about the benefits of sex is like preaching to the choir but dropping these factoids around your significant other may strengthen the case in her mind. So here it goes: researchers report that increasing the frequency of having sex from 1x per month to 1x per week is the happiness equivalent of an increase in $50,000 annually in your income. You can do better than that -let s shoot for 3x because guys who have sex 3x per week also reduce their chances of having a heart attack or stroke by 50%. Plus, women who have more regular sex live longer, their bodies feel younger and overall they are more connected to their love. You probably don t need much convincing to have more sex what you need NOW are a few helpful hints to get her in the mood. One of my favorite suggestions is a sexy bubble bath If you know you are going to surprise her, get started the day before. For your information: many women are scared to take a shower let alone a bath in their boyfriend s tub. So take time to turn the bathroom a comfortable place for her. Are the tub and floors clean? Are there are fluffy towels and a clean bath mat? On the way home, grab a bottle of bubbly, a white wine or some vodka grapes, a mango or an orange are all good fruits to hand feed her while she s chilling in the tub. Maybe get some rose petals and a couple flowers to place in the bathroom. Make sure you have candles. And have something sexy or romantic to read to her. Chill your drink in the refrigerator as soon as you get home till right before she arrives then put some ice in a champagne bucket or if you don t have one, simply use a big bowl or a pot. Know this before hand: does she like bubble bath products? Is there a particular scent she loves or one she hates? Make sure to get it right. If bubbles aren t her favorite how about a few drops of essential oil or some bath salts. Finding out the answers to these questions may be an adventure unto itself. If possible, get home before she does. Make sure the house is tidy and as mentioned the bathroom ready for her. Have some relaxing music playing. Cable music channels like classical, jazz or love songs do wonders if you don t already have an appropriate mix on your iPod. Find out when she is about 15 minutes away from home. Get the elixir of choice chilling in some ice, two glasses, put the fruits on a tray in the bathroom, light candles throughout the house and turn off the lights, have the music on, reading material in bathroom and start the bathtub running a few minutes before she arrives. When she arrives you can start undressing her at the door on her way to the bathroom or simply leave a note on the door for her to start undressing as she follows the trail of rose petals to the door of the bathroom. The only rule is no talking about work or the day s stressors. A little something extra to get her engines revving while you read a few erotic stories to her would be to include a toy for her bath; a water-proof vibrator like jimmyjane s Form6, whose tagline is library friendly, pool safe. To get in the mood and eventually to orgasm, she needs to be relaxed, stressful thoughts must be completely removed from her mind. Your mind is your largest sex organ so doing a little fantasy foreplay with a little extra external help from jimmyjane is sure to lead her down the right path. The alcoholic elixir will raise her levels of testosterone increasing her desire for sex and releasing her inhibitions. By the time you reach the bedroom, if you make it there, she will be completely in the moment, ready to either pounce on you or slide into your arms, either way she will be ready. Congratulations, you have done a great job eliminating the workday from her mind. As women orgasm, three major parts of their brains significantly decrease in activity thus they basically need to loose their minds when they come. Now she can brag about you to her girlfriends. You benefit because she will be thinking about you when you are apart and she will be getting positive feedback from her friends. Now her friends husbands may hate you but it doesn t matter because you are the one continuing to score big points. Thoughts of the romantic, sexy you will continue to create a powerful chemical cocktail inside her body and when she sees you the following night after work chances are her mental foreplay will have already begun. Think of it as residual income do something one day, she thinks about it throughout the next and will want to thank you again and again.

A decadent dose of scrumptious aphrodisiacs awaits your tastebuds as you learn what foods are the best for passion. Keeping carbohydrates and sugars out of your meal till the dessert course will give you focus, energy and endurance to keep playing all night long. Join Joy Nordenstrom, Host of Intelligent Love and CEO of Joy of Romance, Inc. as she continues her Aphrodisiac Tour through Whole Foods Market preparing customers for their Aphrodisiac Affair Meal.

Watch and learn as women answer your most pressing questions? Today we are picking up where I left off in the previous episode. I have gathered a few of the top questions submitted by YOU to the Ask Joy Campaign on my Joy of Romance website (joyofromance.com) AND have posed them to women on the streets of San Francisco. As I will be filming more episodes addressing YOUR questions and topic suggestions, I want to encourage you to please continue submitting more ideas. Now listen and learn the answers to the following questions:How would you encourage a man to be assertive & confident without crossing the line and becoming too arrogant or cocky? What advice would you give a shy gentlemen on how to successfully approach you? What is the biggest turn-off a guy can do or say when hitting on you?