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Francis Ford Coppola talks about his new movie Tetro.

Su Laurent brings us handy hints and tips to make life easier, such as dealing with difficult toddlers.

Today we re going to discuss the tool called signaling or using signals with your child. Signaling is a very good tool for a parent to use on a child who has a certain behavior problem. The parent of the child wants to make a change, but just does not know how. Many times a child will get emotionally involved in something. When this happens they tend to raise their voice, they start whining, and they are not really aware of what they are doing. What you as the parent can do is set up a signal for your child. Set up this signal ahead of time. You can use a certain signal that will let your child know that when he is getting out of hand in any way. Your child may begin to talk to loud or she may begin to whine. The key is to have your child pay attention to that behavior when you signal her. For example, you can make a signal of pulling your ear when your child is yelling. You want to be sure that you pick a signal that your child will see. Your child will need to know that you are talking about that specific behavior. By doing this specific signal when she yells, she will know it is time to stop yelling. You as the parent will begin to see that behavior differently. Also, your child will look at what she is doing and begin to pay attention to that problem too. There is a certain advantage to this type of behavior control. First of all, it can be done in public. Many times children, particularly teens, do not want to be embarrassed in front of their friends. So if you have a signal that only your children know, they can understand that their behavior is getting out of hand and stop it immediately. They have to either tone down their voice, they have got to watch their whining, or whatever other problem you re focusing upon. It is a very useful technique for children, particularly a child who wants to have better behavior. Many times children are not aware of what they are doing. Children do not always know that they are behaving inappropriately. If you remind them and let them focus on the behavior, it can take down a lot of the problems. So again, you should try this. This technique is called signaling. You create a signal to have your child be aware that he is going off in the wrong direction with his behavior. You should be aware of your child s behavior in such a way to start it early in the process. This way your child has a chance to catch it early too. Many times children get so emotionally caught up that they cannot understand what they are doing and sometimes cannot stop the behavior. This is especially true if this is not done until they are teens. Teens and adults sometimes cannot help themselves. But if you catch them early enough, signaling can be a very powerful tool to help your child, a child who wants to change, and wants to behave better, actually behave better and be more aware of what he or she is doing. This is Dr. Anthony Kane with the Complete Connection Parenting Program. For more parenting tips like this, please visit us at www.ccparenting.com.Sign up for a free newsletter!! You will find the one word that s going to help you control and take control of arguments or battles with your child.

Today we are going to discuss a very difficult issue as a parent, which is enlisting outside help. It is hard for parents. Why is it hard? Because generally we, as parents, want to protect our child from harm, from danger, and keep them out of trouble. When we enlist in outside help we are sort of in our minds doing the opposite. Let s say the child or the teenager is involved in dangerous things, in drugs, or in illegal activities. Our initial response, as a parent, is to protect the child. This is not always in the child s best interest. When a child is under the age of eighteen in our society, he falls under the juvenile court system which means they are basically trying to help the child and to rehabilitate the child and to make him into a proper citizen. If he gets into trouble when he is eighteen or older, it is a different situation entirely. He is now an adult, he is judged as an adult, and it is not a forgiving system. If your child is heading down the wrong path and getting into dangerous activities, criminal activities, dangerous drugs, or even have addictions to drugs or alcohol, this means he is not accepting your authority. You have to enlist another power or someone else s authority that your child is forced to accept. This means getting involved whether it is a medical situation or a judicial situation. Your child cannot get out of and this is for your child s best interest. When a child is young, the system will treat him much nicer than when he is older. If your child is heading down the wrong path, you want to do what you can at the earliest possible age. This is to get him in contact with the consequences of what is going to happen if he misbehaves, especially in a system that has better control over him. As a parent, if you let it go, it could be very disastrous for your child or teenager. It is really in our children s best interest to turn them into the authorities or let the system take effect, but we naturally want to protect our children from the consequences of their actions. This is why it is important to seek outside help, we as parents sometimes cannot make the best decisions. Even though it is against our better nature as parents, it is for the best interest of our troubled child or teen. If they are going in that negative direction, if they are out of control and if they are endangering themselves and endangering others, you have to let the system take over. You have to get your child involved with someone whose authority they cannot escape. It is for your child s own good. It is difficult, I understand but there is no other choice sometimes. It is our job as parents to protect our children. This is how you raise your children properly and give the best possible outcome to the situation. Again, it is not nice, but it is what we have to do as parents. This is Doctor Anthony Kane with the Complete Connection Parenting Program. If you would like some more parenting tips like this, please come to our website at www.ccparenting.com and sign up for our free newsletter.

Sia's Little Man video. It's a different version from the original song. It's from the album Healing is Difficult This is the single remix by Marco (ex young Disciples) The album version was the original mix (by co writer Sam Frank, it's about Sam's little brother) The Wookie mix probably got the most play out of all of them. This video was shot at Abbey Rd at quadruple time and then slowed down so the movements look so fluid. It was pretty funny watching everyone sing/play along at breakneck speed to such a mellow tune -Jesse Flavell :) Directed by Cassius Coleman. First aired in September of 2000. Written by Sia Furler, Sam Frank Long Lost Brother Records **Here's a GREAT Sia group on Facebook by the way. There are vids on there that I don't post here. http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=2225680007 x