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New study doesn t distinguish between flaws and healthy behavior I ve long believed that the Internet exists solely because of our ego. Everything we do publicly online is an effort to be acknowledged. This week, two stories pointed out the frighteningly obvious: That students who use social networks are narcissistic and that a center for Internet addiction has opened up in Washington. Please researchers, enough with the leading questions The first story should be filed under the category of Trees are made of wood and other stuff we already knew that didn t require the expense of a university s resources. Regardless, bringing up the issue of what motivates students to use social networks makes us all realize why we re using the Internet. And that s to be acknowledged and to get recognized. The problem is the study lumped in divergent traits narcissism, self-promotion, and attention-seeking as being synonymous. Self-promotion and narcissism are two very different things. Nobody seeks or admires someone who is narcissistic, but we admire people who effectively and non-offensively self-promote. The study created many leading questions which has been a chronic irritation I ve had with organizations such as Forrester and IDC that conduct social media research (Read Social media research is chock full of leading questions ). In my critique, IDC asked leading questions as to what advertising people would be willing to see online and Forrester asked leading questions about trusting corporate blogs. No one wants to see ads and the brand of corporate blogs is like that of a used car salesman. No one wants either, but we use both. We have stereotypes, and in the cases I pointed out, research firms are just confirming existing stereotypes. They re not revealing how one goes around the stereotype or what formed the stereotype. In the case of the students that social network are narcissistic study, it s not revealing. We all knew the results before the study was even conducted. What would have been more interesting is asking people to dig further. Why do you feel the need to self-promote using social networks? Would you self-promote if you didn t have a social network at your disposal? Do you consider yourself as attention-seeking or narcissistic? What about your friends? Do you feel that some are truly narcissistic or are they just healthy self-promoters? That s the story we really need to know. Don t give us the lazy leading question answer we already know, but investigate. Take what we know and reveal to us something we don t know. What s truly a flaw and what s actually healthy behavior? How do you manage your Internet Addiction Disorder? Then there s the story this week of the Internet Addiction Disorder center, reSTART, that opened up here in the U.S. Upon reading the story, many of us laughed, mocking the people who are diagnosed as Internet addicted. But once you actually start reading the nine questions to determine if you are truly Internet addicted, you realize that many of those statements pertain to you. Just look at the first two: Have a strong desire or impulse to use the Internet. Decreasing or stopping of the Internet leads to withdrawal symptoms. I can t think of one person those two statements don t apply to. If that s the case, we re all Internet addicted. But then again, I think we re also addicted to our phones, television, and reading. These studies were so popular this week because they all made us question our own behaviors. Don t you feel a little self-centered or maybe even narcissistic when you re on a social network? And have you ever been on a vacation yet were still eager to check your email? Did you question your own behavior when you saw these stories? Did you question the research and the results of the social networking/narcissism story? Discussing Internet addiction and social networking narcissism with Curtis Sliwa on WABC Radio Curtis Sliwa on WABC Radio Last night I discussed these topics with radio personality and Guardian Angels founder Curtis Sliwa, host of a very popular late night radio program on WABC Radio. He joked that his phone screener, Goldbrick, was heavily addicted to the Internet and was shotgunning Redbulls just to stay awake so he could stay online longer. Listen to or download the funny and engaging 13-minute conversation. Download audio file (curtis_sliwa_082509_post.mp3) David Spark helps businesses grow by developing thought leadership through storytelling and covering live events at Spark Media Solutions. He blogs at The Spark Minute and can be heard and seen regularly on ABC Radio, Cranky Geeks with John C. Dvorak, and KQED in San Francisco. See his business profile, contact David, or leave a comment below.

Book cover via AmazonYou Midwesterners may disagree, but I don’t think there is any single place in this country more representative of the soul of America than Brooklyn and New Jersey. And the fact that I was born in the former and raised in the latter doesn’t color my thinking at all. Both are cultural, ethnic and racial melting pots dating back to the earliest days of the original 13 colonies. But only one is featured as a world onto itself in a new book by my guest, Peter Golenbock. In The Country of Brooklyn is a remarkable trip through the history of one of the United States’ most vital geographic regions, one that has contribute to our nation in the fields of politics, culture, society and pretty much everything else that counts. But that’s not the only new book he has hitting bookstores today. Peter also helped actor Tony Curtis produce his autobiography, titled American Prince: A Memoir, and that is also available today. Two books published on the same day. Not bad, not bad at all! This is Peter’s second visit to Mr. Media; he was my guest in early 2007 when he published the controversial book, 7: The Mickey Mantle Novel. He is also someone I consider a friend. You can LISTEN to this interview with PETER GOLENBOCK, author of IN THE COUNTRY OF BROOKLYN and AMERICAN PRICE: A MEMOIR by clicking the BlogTalkRadio.com audio player below! Open in your default player Detach into a separate window Copyright 2008 Bob Andelman. Click here for copyright permissions!

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Author: euganot Added: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:49:31 -0800 Duration: 148The boys go to Vegas. Try new things with hot dogs.... Whatever happened in Vegas probably should've stayed..... Footlong is a documentary about the social impact of the hot dog on American Culture.... seriously. Behind every hot dog is a story. Come with Gerry and Chris as they bring you stories from around the country in the road trip of their lives.

Author: euganot Added: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:16:19 -0800 Duration: 124Oakland CA, Home of Kasper's Footlong is a documentary about the social impact of the hot dog on American Culture.... seriously. Behind every hot dog is a story. Come with Gerry and Chris as they bring you stories from around the country in the road trip of their lives.

Author: euganot Added: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:16:19 -0800 Duration: 124Oakland CA, Home of Kasper's Footlong is a documentary about the social impact of the hot dog on American Culture.... seriously. Behind every hot dog is a story. Come with Gerry and Chris as they bring you stories from around the country in the road trip of their lives.

Author: euganot Added: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 22:49:31 -0800 Duration: 148The boys go to Vegas. Try new things with hot dogs.... Whatever happened in Vegas probably should've stayed..... Footlong is a documentary about the social impact of the hot dog on American Culture.... seriously. Behind every hot dog is a story. Come with Gerry and Chris as they bring you stories from around the country in the road trip of their lives.

Author: euganot Added: Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:16:19 -0800 Duration: 124Oakland CA, Home of Kasper's Footlong is a documentary about the social impact of the hot dog on American Culture.... seriously. Behind every hot dog is a story. Come with Gerry and Chris as they bring you stories from around the country in the road trip of their lives.