Is your love stressed out, too uptight for sex because she had a rough day at the office? You know the routine, she’s ready to jump into her sweats, curl up on the couch, and eat some comfort food to unwind from the week…..OH NO!... this looks like the recipe for
YOU AIN’T GETTING LUCKY TONIGHT. So, if you want to help her unwind, de-stress but not CRASH get ready to watch and learn some pointers. Chances are if you take these few steps, the two of you will be much happier campers.
Telling you about the benefits of sex is like preaching to the choir but dropping these factoids around your significant other may strengthen the case in her mind. So here it goes: researchers report that increasing the frequency of having sex from 1x per month to 1x per week is the happiness equivalent of an increase in $50,000 annually in your income. You can do better than that -let’s shoot for 3x because guys who have sex 3x per week also reduce their chances of having a heart attack or stroke by 50%. Plus, women who have more regular sex live longer, their bodies feel younger and overall they are more connected to their love.
You probably don’t need much convincing to have more sex what you need NOW are a few helpful hints to get her in the mood. One of my favorite suggestions is a sexy bubble bath…
If you know you are going to surprise her, get started the day before. For your information: many women are scared to take a shower let alone a bath in their boyfriend’s tub. So take time to turn the bathroom a comfortable place for her. Are the tub and floors clean? Are there are fluffy towels and a clean bath mat?
On the way home, grab a bottle of bubbly, a white wine or some vodka… grapes, a mango or an orange are all good fruits to hand feed her while she’s chilling in the tub. Maybe get some rose petals and a couple flowers to place in the bathroom. Make sure you have candles. And have something sexy or romantic to read to her.
Chill your drink in the refrigerator as soon as you get home till right before she arrives then put some ice in a champagne bucket or if you don’t have one, simply use a big bowl or a pot.
Know this before hand: does she like bubble bath products? Is there a particular scent she loves or one she hates? Make sure to get it right. If bubbles aren’t her favorite how about a few drops of essential oil or some bath salts. Finding out the answers to these questions may be an adventure unto itself.
If possible, get home before she does. Make sure the house is tidy and as mentioned the bathroom ready for her.
Have some relaxing music playing. Cable music channels like classical, jazz or love songs do wonders if you don’t already have an appropriate mix on your iPod.
Find out when she is about 15 minutes away from home. Get the elixir of choice chilling in some ice, two glasses, put the fruits on a tray in the bathroom, light candles throughout the house and turn off the lights, have the music on, reading material in bathroom and start the bathtub running a few minutes before she arrives.
When she arrives you can start undressing her at the door on her way to the bathroom or simply leave a note on the door for her to start undressing as she follows the trail of rose petals to the door of the bathroom. The only rule is no talking about work or the day’s stressors.
A little something extra to get her engines revving while you read a few erotic stories to her would be to include a toy for her bath; a water-proof vibrator like jimmyjane’s Form6, whose tagline is library friendly, pool safe. To get in the mood and eventually to orgasm, she needs to be relaxed, stressful thoughts must be completely removed from her mind. Your mind is your largest sex organ so doing a little fantasy foreplay with a little extra external help from jimmyjane is sure to lead her down the right path.
The alcoholic elixir will raise her levels of testosterone increasing her desire for sex and releasing her inhibitions. By the time you reach the bedroom, if you make it there, she will be completely in the moment, ready to either pounce on you or slide into your arms, either way she will be ready. Congratulations, you have done a great job eliminating the workday from her mind. As women orgasm, three major parts of their brains significantly decrease in activity thus they basically need to “loose their minds” when they come.
Now she can brag about you to her girlfriends. You benefit because she will be thinking about you when you are apart and she will be getting positive feedback from her friends. Now her friends’ husbands may hate you but it doesn’t matter because you are the one continuing to score big points. Thoughts of the romantic, sexy you will continue to create a powerful chemical cocktail inside her body and when she sees you the following night after work chances are her mental foreplay will have already begun. Think of it as residual income… do something one day, she thinks about it throughout the next and will want to thank you again and again.
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